Previously, I wrote about the type of reactions you get from friends when you tell them about EDS. Well, I forgot to tell you about the doctor categories.
The Archaeologist - This is the doctor that treats you like a rare specimen. They could very well be anything from a joint doctor to an allergy specialist but regardless of their area of specialty, they find you fascinating They will ask you to perform all of your party tricks... that they know you shouldn't do ;)... however, you leave their office feeling like a rock star
The Skeptic - This doctor is skeptical of the existence of EDS at all... and is more commonly known as ignorant. Blunt, I know, but these doctors belittle your condition while making you feel as small as an ant. Just because a disorder is rare doesn't mean it doesn't exist, or isn't as bad as you claim. I was told by one doctor that all it meant was that I was flexible and that probably half of all people have it... he needs to go back to school.
The Blank Slate - This doctor is like the majority of the world in that he hasn't heard of EDS. Let's face it, unless you are incredibly intelligent you won't be able to remember everything you learned in school.Yes, they have to read the books and pass the BAR but unless you have come in contact with an EDS-er, he likely doesn't have much of a reason to know the ins and outs of our disorder.
The Partner in Crime- This guy will be your best friend through your treatment. He can be anyone from a geneticist to a massage therapist - as long as he understands EDS or is willing to dig in and learn about EDS in order to treat you, then they qualify under this category. They believe you, support you, and want to help you.
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